Jim
was such a good friend of mine since 1976 it has been
difficult to know in which direction to take this
site. He told me many times "Bill, you and I should
run this publishing company." I put together business
plans, the last one just a few short weeks before his
death. But he and I were too impractical when it came
to business to ever get the effort off the ground.
Before a performance Jim made
in Anchorage, Alaska many years ago, Jim disappeared for
some hours to learn of Anchorage. He later confessed
he had gone to the worst parts of Anchorage to have a
drink with the down and out in some now extinct, run down
bar. Since I have had the
greatest of fortunes to have known both Jim and Bob
Kavanaugh quite well it brings a smile to my mind to
remember them both and often in true Irish Wake fashion -
with a song and an Irish Whiskey or two.
Several
years before Jim died he told me he lost the
www.JamesKavanaugh.com web address to some unscrupulous web
designers. By good fortune and determination I was
able to rescue the domain name a few months ago. As I consider how to
transform the site that will not offend or violate the law
I do want to find a an educational and entertaining way to
bring the writings and philosophy of Jim to life for all
of us in some meaningful way as a tribute to the person
Jim was to all of us. Over the years that this site
has been up I have received many interesting thoughts and
tributes to Jim. I will try to place some of them
somewhere in the site.
To take care of the legal
issues - I am not the copy-write license holder of any of
the works of James Kavanaugh so please don't ask for any
permissions. This site and all that you find was
fully authorized by Jim shortly before his death and I do
have a letter from him authorizing me to do this
work.
I do appreciate all the nice
comments and words many of you have expressed.
If your interested in knowing how I am
still exploring the meaning of "The Search" you can visit
my other life in Rwanda you can visit this site "The Green Program".
Never one to shy away
from speaking his mind, Dr. James Kavanaugh was an extremely
intelligent, articulate, and passionate man. He naturally drew
others to himself as he just had a certain something about him
that left others intrigued to know him better. Jim was an
ordained priest and a natural teacher who effortlessly shared
his knowledge without others realizing they were even being
taught. Always one to do things his way, Jim carved his own path
along his life’s journey that looks a bit unconventional to
some, but his life is a masterfully constructed lesson in
proving that anything is possible. Jim was blessed to share 12
years of his life with his true companion with whom he created
precious memories too numerous to count.
The year 1928
was part of a decade of innovation and discovery within America
that forever changed the face of our nation. It was a year in
which Walt Disney released his first Mickey Mouse cartoon, the
first color motion picture was exhibited, and Amelia Earhart
made history as the first woman to fly across the Atlantic. This
was also a year for celebration in the home of Frank and Hazel
(Wendel) Kavanaugh as they welcomed the birth of their son,
James, on September 17th. James, who was often called Jim, was
born in Kalamazoo, Michigan, as the middle of seven boys in his
family. His parents supported their family through the insurance
agency they owned in town. Jim’s mother made her boys attend
church daily and tried to groom them all to become priests.
Ironically, two of her seven boys did choose that for their
life’s work! As a boy Jim would often hitch-hike to St. A’s from
their home on Oakland Street, although they would sled down
Maple Street in the winter. All of the Kavanaugh boys were
highly competitive and great athletes as well.
At the young
age of 14, Jim made the decision to attend the seminary in Grand
Rapids. He was ordained as a priest in 1954. Jim initially
served at St. Joseph, Nazareth, but his first official
assignment was at the Cathedral in Lansing. He later served at
St. John Vianney in Flint. During this time Jim continued his
studies, eventually earning three Ph.D. Degrees in theology,
religious philosophy, and physiology. A short time later, Jim
found a benefactor in Flint who sponsored him, and he then went
to Germany where he learned to speak German perfectly in only
one month. Throughout his career Jim was a bit of a “hippy”
priest who never had any problems making waves. He even wrote an
article for the Washington Post entitled, “I am a Priest and I
Want to be Married.” Not surprisingly, this article created a
huge uproar within Catholic circles. Jim was asked to expand his
thoughts into a book, which he did. The final product was a book
called, A Modern Priest Looks At His Outdated Church. Jim
authored this book in 1968 after he packed up his Volkswagen and
drove to Mexico, although he ended up living in California.
Jim found that
California suited him well so he remained there for many years.
He became quite well-known there as well. Jim wrote a dozen
poetry books and 24 novels, all of which were religious writings
and of course, controversial as readers either loved him or
hated him. Jim also taught a variety of workshops, taught at
various universities, performed at numerous poetry readings, and
was on all the talk shows - even The Tonight Show. People found
Jim fascinating as he was extremely passionate about his
beliefs, highly educated, and not afraid to share what was on
his mind. He dated Goldie Hawn for a time and even dated Suzanne
Somers for two years. While they were together Jim wrote Suzanne
a book about love in just one weekend. This book sparked the
beginning of Suzanne’s writing career. While in California Jim
did PPS and some stage work, ran a publishing company, and
traveled in the same circles as many celebrities. He remained in
California until 1992, at which time he moved to Chicago
following the death of his mother.
Eventually Jim moved
to Michigan in order to be near family, which is where he found
the love of his life. Her name was Cathy Markel, and she had a
15-year-old daughter with whom she was looking for a man to
complete their family. During this same time, Jim was looking
for a family to complete his life as well. It was March of 1997,
and Cathy was a graphic designer who had just quit her job and
wanted to be a cook instead. Around this same time, Jim put an
ad in the paper that stated he was looking for a cook,
housekeeper, graphic designer, and secretary. Cathy was a
perfect fit, and from the first time they met, they never left
each other’s side. They were opposites in every way and Cathy
truly appreciated the ways in which Jim was a bit different from
the norm. It was plain to see that their relationship just
worked. She helped him design several of his pamphlets and
helped take over the publishing as well.
There were many ways
in which Jim and Cathy were like-minded. They loved traveling
together and since Jim was such a bad driver, Cathy was always
the one behind the wheel. Their travels took them out to
California for six months, to New Orleans, and to Yellowstone in
the winter where they ran into a herd of buffalo. They enjoyed a
family trip to Ft. Meyers, Florida, and they also made a stop at
Everglades National Forest since Jim was always such a lover of
nature.
Dr. James Kavanaugh
was a man unlike any other. He could be a bit stubborn, always
stood up for the underdog, and was forever ready to speak his
mind. Jim enjoyed a variety of music including Latin hymns and
Georgian chants, Irish songs, and both jazz and classical music
as well. Some will remember Jim for his love of nature or his
weakness for cookies, but all will remember him for his
generosity with both his time and his heart, and the inspiration
he shared with all those near him. He will be dearly missed.
Dr. James Kavanaugh died on December 29, 2009 in
Kalamazoo. Jim’s family includes his wife Cathy Kavanaugh;
daughter, Katherine Markel (Michael Johnson); 3 brothers, Dr.
Philip Kavanaugh, Dr. Thomas (Susan) Kavanaugh and Dr. Daniel
(Bonnie) Kavanaugh; and many nieces and nephews. Jim was
preceded in death by 3 brothers: Frank Kavanaugh, Dr. John
Kavanaugh and Fr. Robert Kavanaugh. Learn more about Jim and
share in an “Irish Wake” with his family and friends on Sunday
from 2:00 – 6:00 p.m. at the Betzler Life Story Funeral Homes
- Kalamazoo; 6080 Stadium Drive, 375-2900 where services will
be held Monday at 11:00 a.m. A reception will follow in the
Life Story Center. Please visit www.lifestorynet.com
where you can archive a memory or photo or make a memorial
donation to the James Kavanaugh Institute.
This point
in time can be a challenge or may continue to be a challenge
as life can be. Being one of the "Searchers" of life
does not mean we will have THE answer to life when we need it
most. One of the common threads that run though all of
the writings of Jim is that the answer comes from within and
may reveal itself through the person sitting next to you on a
bus or in the car next to you as you commute another day to
that life sucking, dead end job from hell. We must
always remember can change our world because "Wisdom is not
taught. Systems are taught. Wisdom comes from experiencing
life." (from Celebrate
the Sun).
Life comes from you and life comes from me and
from being grateful.
The writings of James
Kavanaugh were a regular fixture in bookshops around
North America until life for all of us seemed to move in
a very different direction. Of course this
change has little to do with people, politics, business
or religion except that recently, all of these
individual elements are put to us in mutually exclusive,
competing islands of thought. We are lead to believe
that an integrated approach to life and thought is no
longer allowed. The institutions we have allowed to be
built in our names and in the name of progress, only
rise up at the expense of our collective human
characteristics and show us how very far we have drifted
from real values.
We hope you will take a fresh look at the
words Jim wrote so many years ago. Come and see
how these thoughts are even more important for our world
today. Allow these thoughts to once again
challenge and assist us look at life with a gentleness
and renewed passion so we can once again look at one
another as friends and ask as Jim did in "Will you be my friend?"
:
...A
friend
Who far beyond
the feebleness of any vow or tie
Will touch the secret place
where I am really I,
To know the pain of lips
that plead and eyes that weep,
Who will not run
away when you find me in the street
Alone and lying
mangled by my quota of defeats
But will stop
and stay to tell me of another day
When I was
beautiful.
Will you be my
friend?
There are so many reasons why
you never should ...
So come in and look
around, drop into our bookshop - but please excuse us while we continue to get the books up
on the shelves.
This
effort
is still a work in process.
Enjoy
a
good read and let us know how we can do better.
Drop me a line and let me know what you
think of the site or just to give us your ideas.
We will work hard to activate all of the
links over the coming weeks.